It is best to accomplish these tasks while still of able mind and body.
Plan a meeting with your parish priest or the Parish Office so a priest can administer the sacraments to the dying family member and answer any questions the family may have about death and the church’s funeral rites.
Discuss your dying family member’s wishes, taking into consideration what is best for him or her. Honoring the wishes of the dying is outlined in this planning guide.
Make any arrangements you can before the death of your loved one, including planning the funeral rites and selecting cemetery property.